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When she stares at your mouth, smile...then kiss her.
When she pushes you or hit's you, hug her tight.
When she starts cursing at you, say I love you.
When she's quiet, hold her hand and ask what's wrong.
When she ignores you, act cute so she'll notice you.
When she pulls away, pull her back.
When you see her at her worst, tell her you love her and she still looks amazing.
When you see her walking, approach her...give a kiss on the cheek.
When she's scared, assure her you're not going to leave her.
When she lays her head on your shoulder, tilt your head too...and hold her hand.
When she steals your favorite hat, let her keep it.
When she teases you, tease her back and make her laugh.
When she says that she likes you, she really does more than you could understand.
When she grabs at your hands, hold hers and play with her fingers.
When she bumps into you, bump into her back and make her laugh.
When she tells you a secret, keep it safe and untold.
When she is sick, stay up all night with her.
When she's bored and sad, hang out with her.
When she's mad, hug her tight and don't let go.
When she wants to see her favorite movie or show, watch it with her even if you think it's stupid.
When she says she's okay, don't believe it…talk to her.
When she looks at you in your eyes, don't look away until she does.
When she doesn't answer for a long time, reassure her that everything is okay.
When she looks at you with doubt, back yourself up.
When she misses you, she's hurting inside.
When you break her heart, the pain never really goes away.
When she says it's over, she still wants you to be hers.
When she's not saying anything, stay on the phone with her.
When you see her start crying, hold her...ask her what's wrong.
When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you'd say is..."Who's ass am I gonna kick baby?"
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Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her.
Call her before you sleep and after you wake up.
Treat her like she's all that matters to you.
Let her wear your clothes.
Let her know she's important.
Kiss her in the pouring rain.
Give her the world.
Readers have left 55 comments. 1. Guest that is nice, corny, and so very true 3. Jodie I like those! I may take advice and use some with girlfriend :) 4. Dorin >> Give her the world.
All this for reproduction ... :) 5. Mia haha! I hope not in all cases Dorin.. :) 6. siddhartha ezra so true. i surely would send this to my better half. though he's already sweet. want him to be sweeter. :) 7. orange what do you do when se tells you all is fine and then 2 days later you find out she slept with an other ? 8. Guest Is there a list of what she will be doing for me ,while I'm doing all of this for her ? Or is this one of those ideals where the reward is in your doing all of this for her,without thought of your self ? LOVE you don't get it,if you don't give it. 9. Guest True... very true... I do 90% of those things... but we guys need some loving too! :-D 10. Guest and what about boys 11. Guest this is s*****. "when she's mad, hold her and don't let her go." yeah, do that, that'll work.
i***** 12. Guest Unbelievable. I couldn't possibly remember this stuff and quite frankly have better things to do than play s***** games for a piece of a**. It's because of this s***** s*** that woman think they have so much control nowadays.
If things are equal, or maybe even just a little one-sided for men then I'm ok with that. BUT, I will never kiss a woman's a** like that. Leave that stuff to the guys who absolutely "needs" to be loved by a woman. There are plenty of fish in the sea and if one becomes too needy or too b***** then she's history! 13. René Garcia Why do the things on this list seem familiar? Oh, because we've probably seen them in a thousand different romantic comedies, that's why. 14. Guest Half of these are just the whiny dreams of a very insecure woman. Girls, stop giving us a bad name. Come on. You can do better than this. 15. Guest what about "when she starts f***ing some guy from work?" 16. Guest i do all this to my girl and she thinks i am a queer .. i be strong and then she likes it 17. Guest i think these things are so sweet. and yes, what can us girls do for our very special guy? you should make a list for those things too! 18. Guest She'll start f***ing the guy from work when you stop doing all this. I suppose it's too late by then. 19. Guest but who wants to go out with a fish? 20. Guest It doesnt tell u what to do when she has an affair with an 18 year old after ten yrs together, for 6 months, or what to do after said 18 year old beats the crap out of her about 2 days after u find out and leave her. Any ideas? 21. Guest Tried alot of this and it doesn't work just made her lose respect for me 22. Monique Briand I Stumbled Upon this article on your blog.
I enjoy it when I see different ways for people to get closer to one another.
I also think that this may do well on Facebook.
Monique Briand 23. Guest Oh, come on! This is great advice, if you're in high school. If you're looking for a real relationship, life is much, much more complicated.
Women don't really want some wimpy romantic. They want leaders who are willing to take control (bad boys, pricks, and cocky guys). That's why the "nice guy" never wins. It's that way until the day they die. They're just looking for a leader to follow. 24. Guest My woman may wish I was sweeter, but she seems pretty happy with having a house, car, grocery money, and someone who comes home every night.
I remember her birthday, and our Anniversary, and I still get a baby sitter a couple times a month and take her dancing, even if I would rather play cards and drink some beer.
But if I acted like this, she'd kick my @ss and call me a p****.
I guess what I am saying is what MOST women really want (only my experience) is a man who CAN be sweet, when he doesn't have to be.
Not some effete sycophant who spends all day worshipping your shadow.
That's the nice guy syndrome, treat her a like a queen, and she'll be sure to treat you like a subject. I promise you that. 25. Guest As a woman, this is a joke! I laugh and scoff. I want my man to be a man, and not be some silly putty in my hands. 27. Guest Holy hell, I'm a woman and reading all of that made me want to puke! If I'm mad, I don't want to be touched! When I say it is over, I frickin mean it! I could go on and on! Oh..and after really great sex, I don't want to talk or cuddle..I want to go to sleep! Sheesh! 28. Guest I'm gonna be sick. This is tooooooo dumb. I stumbledupon it. ~That's my excuse....couldn't quite believe how crass and s***** and twee it was. Here comes the sweetcorn.......uuuuuuuuuuurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrhhhhhhhhhhhh 29. Florian these were probably written by a desperate hurt virgin, just like the karma sutra. if men were to do this s***, we would be castrated... this is what you women think you want... but never take advice about women from women! 30. Guest let me paraphrase...
When she is a heartless b**** trampling your soul; s*** it up, kiss her a**, get slapped around like a little b****, ask for more, and prepare to do it again.
This is what is expected of you... welcome to political correctness, as a man, you are now society's b****.
Great list! 31. Lady Sophiea, It's sad how todays women dont see it when men do treat them in such a sweet way. seems like girls today would rather have abusive and neglecting spouses rather than love or affection. its a shame, my boyfriend treats me like a princess. and for that he gets worshipped like a god. ;)
and to the person saying that holding a woman when shes mad wont solve it, your right and wrong. it wont solve it but the comfort is just intense enough for us to chill out, calm down and talk about it.
Great stumble. even if modern girls are all B*tchy children without manners, and even if modern men are foul mouthed degenerates.
32. Guest f*** that s*** how about b****** just sit back take what they are given and do as the are told ohhh for those days again 33. Ur-all-I-need really nice... infact, its really true... Guys/men should always make ur Love one that she's so very special and let her feel that you couldn't live without her... "Guys listen" The thing that they will offer to you in return, is to love you more than anything in this world, more than her life... "its true" Belive me! Just Love them true like more than ur life as well.. (unless if the woman really loves you without any doubts, the motivation is 100% true) 34. Kai These actually kind of bother me... more than anything, the fair majority of them sound patronizing and sardonic at best. The remainder are allowing yourself to be trampled on, and essentially make you into a desperate plaything. Sorry, I used to think this kind of thing was romantic, but I think I've figured out life a little more since then. 35. Guest this corny s*** is defintely made up by a woman.. know how I can tell? cause it's corny s***! 36. WTF Who wrote this narcissistic crap? Let's go skip through some daisies together too! Yeah, right. How about the list of things a women should do for her Man. Like s****** our s****, not only do we like it, it's proven to reduce the risk of breast cancer. So, we're not selfish, we're helping you with preventive health care. 37. Guest i wish my bf was like this lol 38. Robert Underwood All of these are good ideas, but one must also keep in mind that women can and will also take advantage of a guy who acts like this. So simply use common sense. Don't let a woman use you, nor use a woman. Respect and caring is a double edged sword. Without it, one of you gets cut rather than both sharing the pain. There is a fine line between pleasure and pain. All of those same things can be said for a list of men instead of women as well. Truth of the matter is, a man really just wants a woman that will truly be there for him. 39. Guest When she says "please, don't", you gag her and do it even harder. 40. Twilight Here's one I have a problem with:
When she pushes you or hit's you, hug her tight.
Nah uh buddy, None of this double-standard crap. That's called Domestic Abuse, I can't hit her without being arrested, she can't hit me. 41. mimi i would love for a guy to treat me like that 42. Mimzy Yes yes and yes! I would love for a guy to be like that. That would just make my life seem so so so so everything. but I'm going to be realistic and so sorry ladies but there's no such man on this earth. Maybe there is some that have part of those qualities but there are just so little now a days.... 43. Guest I could be driven mad by this kind of overkill romance. (and yes I am a girl). 44. t and what u girls can do for us men is give some f****** a**, fridged bitchez , s*** our c*** so hard and give us some deep t******, that's what we want, and when we get back from work be sure the dinner is served, and then give a**, its that simple we just want s** all of the f****** time, i aint kidding, i personally like to hold my girlfriend tight and give her a hug kiss her on the neck and watch some movies, surf with her and fish, ski with her and dance. but that's me, others want other things, but the things that u both like (thus i am saying the hobbies that u two share could bring you together close) that i know 45. Guest it would be great for guys to be like this from time to time .. but not always! they also need to be a man! 46. Undisputed Truth Guys don't waste your time with this crap! Women don't want it ! These are the lies they use to weed out the real men from the wanna be's . Don't ever listen to this B.S.If you don't lead, she won't respect you and if you are too nice you're screwed.She will screw another guy, take your money and disrespect you! This crap sounds nice to the world but it ain't reality baby! Guys listen up, don't take any advice about women form a woman. You are men ! Act and be a man! It's simple. 47. Guest I must agree with the above... Personally looking through this list i probably do about a quarter of these with my girls... But past those few things this list is a for sure way to make a girl loose respect for you and think of you as not being a man enough. Some of you need to grow balls and man because that's what most women really want is a man who will take charge and take care of them while still respecting himself as well. 48. help needed but what if you do all this but don't love her?
how do you lose a sweet gurl that you just don't love back?
please help, i'm an asshole by accident. 49. Brieal Haha. Okay, I like how everyone is getting all tight about this. Really, it's just a cute page. Not everything on here is supposed to be taken seriously. I mean, a couple of these every once and awhile would be cool, and I agree that overuse of a couple of these would be bad, but why is it degrading or puke-worthy? Also: It's nice when a man doesn't stick to the stereotypes set forth for him. I don't want a guy who'd always acting 'macho' and manly. It's better for a guy to just act like himself (and if that includes anything on the list, then more power to him). 50. Mia Thanks Brieal... :) 51. Guest Women think they want this kind of treatment. The writing on the wall says women want leaders, not worshipers. The problem with these lists is that if a man does all of these things he emasculates himself, but if he picks a few things here and there she'll know you care. Women love to be able to brag to their girlfriends about what their men do for them so you have show a soft side too. 52. Linda This article didn't make me sick, reading the comments did. There are so many stupid generalizations. So many guys here are basically saying that all a woman is good for is a f*** buddy. Not only that, but there are women that commented saying "we don't want that, we want this" when it's really "I want this." Every person has their own intrests, including what makes them happy, or what attracts them to someone. If there's a person who thinks that everything on this list is stupid, then fine. If there's someone who thinks that a lot of what's there would be nice, then that's great. No one is the same. It also bugs me that people are saying that no matter what, a woman will "walk all over" any guy who does these things. That's not true either. I know for a fact that I wouldn't. Just because a select few might take advantage of the opportunity doesn't mean that the rest of us will. 53. Guest I used to do some of these things, but my girlfriend didn't like most of them. To make her happy, I had to change how I responded. Generalizations are nice, but the one sure fire way is to get to know what makes her happy, and do it. 54. Jitendra Singh damn true
every girl will like this
after all every girl is same 55. Guest f*** this s*** this is f***ing gay, ill tell you what to do guys, if a girl gives you lip punch her out, if a girl starts to cry call her a bitch, why do men have to be good to get a girl, f*** that. |
