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Reasons Men or Women Take You For Granted And Dump You |
- You are needy and desperate and lonely and as a result jump into bed or fall in love quickly (and hard) without doing a proper assessment of the people you get involved with.
- You rearrange your plans around him/her and most of all leave all decisions up to him/her. Basically you wait on him/her hand and foot.
- You walk around on eggshells fearing that you might say or do something to upset him/her and cause him/her to stop liking you.
- You are easily intimidated when you try to voice your feelings because you feel that you have nothing special or important to offer a man/woman. You always feel insecure.
- You deliberately withhold personal information, thoughts and feelings for fear that he/she will either belittle you or reject you. You never get close.
- You worry so much (worry about what the other person said, worry about what they meant by it, worry about how you reacted etc) that your worry creates a sense of helplessness and powerlessness.
- You exaggerate your own faults so as to make the other person feel good about him/herself. The problem is he/she actually starts believing he/she is better than you.
- You give of this facade of everything is great and I'm happy but you're not. The cost of pretending is not having a voice.
- You privately harbour a great deal of anger that you react to situation as if you've been attacked thereby creating constant drama and distance in your relationships.
- You are so afraid of taking risks, making decisions or making a mistake that you sub-consciously seek out people who control and dominate you and tell you what to do.
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